Post by lirie2 on Jan 30, 2012 17:44:35 GMT -5
Kateryna 'Katy' Darkowski
| [atrb=border,0,true][atrb=cellSpacing,0,true][atrb=cellPadding,0,true][atrb=style, background-color: none;,true][cs=2][atrb=width,300] hey there. the name's Kateryna Darkowski! i go by Katy too if you were wondering. also i'll have you know that i am Twenty six & loving it. oh. you've heard that I'm bisexual? & that I'm from the Ukraine? well the rumors are true for once. well I gotta get going, nursing is calling. see ya'! history “History, why can’t it just stay that way? Well, if you insist on knowing I guess I’ll tell you… I was born it the Ukraine, I don’t remember much of it because we immigrated here to the US when I had just turned four years old. My dad said life was harder for us there, but it wasn’t exactly easy for us here either, we moved in with my aunt and uncle who’ve been living in the stated for years before we got here and I’ve been in this town ever since. My parents were loving, loving but very strict, I guess it’s thanks to them that I did so well in school, one thing I can thank them for at least. We lived in the slums and I wore hand me downs I got from my cousins, my mom had a crappy job as a cook at the diner and my dad worked in many factory’s but struggled to keep a job. I wasn’t to popular in school, to say the least, my clothes were old, nothing I ever wore was in style and I look awkward, since my lady parts only started developing during my last two years in high school. I had a few friends, some the other outcasts, but I was pretty much ignored, which is probably another reason I threw myself into my school work. Those who took the time to know me loved me though; I guess I have a likeable personality. Now, to get to the part I hate talking about, so listen up because it’s going to be quick. I was six years old when I had my first girl crush; it was on my much older cousin’s girlfriend of the time. I wasn’t sure what it was called to like someone the same sex as you, but a part of me knew it wasn’t normal, so I never asked my parents about it. I went through elementary school and middle school wondering about this, crushing on random girls but never speaking about it, I dated one or two boys, you know the whole hand holding kiss on the cheeks thing, but when high school came around I didn’t date anyone until my last year. . I found out about the terminology for my feelings during my first year high school, some kid called me a dyke, because I looked a lot like one with my cousin’s hand me down jeans and t-shirts and when I asked my mother about the word she explained to me what it meant and that it was a disgrace to be one, but that I didn’t have to worry about it because I wasn’t one. That day was the day I knew I’d never be able to talk to my mother about my sexuality, she hated it and my father did too, I knew I would be disowned and had nowhere to go, I couldn’t work because I was too young. I tried fighting against these feeling for long, but when I met my first girlfriend, an openly gay, stunningly beautiful girl, I couldn’t. What surprised me the most is that she liked me too, sure I looked much better and had grown out of my awkward phase, but she was still way out of my league, we started secretly dating during my second last year of high school and my parents found out after my graduation, when they caught us making out at the small party they had thrown for me. I will never forget the anger and disappointment on their faces, they called me a disgrace and after a huge argument I packed my own bags and moved in with my girlfriend and her parents, who accepted us. I decided to become a nurse after talking to one at the career day at our high school, but I knew my parents weren’t going to help, they said they never wanted to see me again, so I had to make it happen on my own. I worked two jobs, one as a bar lady and one as a waitress and studies for my bachelor’s degree part time for six years. I experienced my first heartbreak only one year after I started studying, when I took time off from studying to surprise my girlfriend and found her doing the nasty with some girl in the same bed we slept in every night. I moved out that same day, into a low income apartment I had to share with a guy, but heck, beggars can’t be choosers, can they? I’ve now been working as a nurse at the local private hospital for two years and I love it, I have a much better apartment I don’t have to share with anyone and I can afford buying nice clothes every now and then. I have much more friends than I did in high school and life is sweeter than it has ever been for me. As far as the gay thing goes, I'm mainly into women, there aren't many men I find attractive, but I will never say never, I might find a guy I like enough to date, even to marry, although I just don't see myself doing that, you never know... It's not like I hate men.” personality Despite being pretty much an outcast in school Katy is now a very social and outgoing person, she likes going to the club when she’s not working to dance and have fun with her friends. She doesn’t drink a much, a lot of the time when she goes out she won’t drink anything alcoholic, she says she doesn’t need alcohol; she’s crazy and fun enough without it. She has never and probably never will use drugs, being a nurse means she sees a lot of OD’s and things, she does smoke every now and then though and drinks a lot of energy drinks, especially when clubbing. She’s known to just about anything when dared and has a great sense of humor, she likes telling stupid jokes and doing random things to make people laugh. Katy is all around a likeable person, but she has no filter in the things that she says, when she thinks it she says it, she doesn’t think about the consequences and it has caused some awkward situations for her over the years. She doesn’t really like being violent so she’d avoid it as best she can, but that doesn’t mean she doesn’t know how to slap a bitch when things get out of hand, she grew up in the slums, she had to learn to defend herself. When she’s not at work, working long hours she’s usually with friend or out on the town, she enjoys sleeping but finds that it is a waste of time, so she sleeps just as much as she needs to function. She’s currently working the graveyard shift at the hospital, which is from 7pm to 7am, three out of four weekdays and every other weekend as an emergency room nurse which keeps her very busy but if by some miracle they have a quiet night she’s known to play pranks on her colleagues and goof around, besides energy drinks that’s the way she keeps herself awake. Her hobbies include ballet, which she has been doing since she came to the States, a little less during the time she studied, but she made time for it at least once a week and she’s pretty good. People are usually shocked to hear she does ballet, since she doesn’t come across as a ballerina at all. She also likes karaoke, which she’s not necessarily great at, but does for fun and the entertainment of others. Katy is bisexual, but she does prefer girls over guys, she doesn’t find a lot of guys attractive and finds it harder to create an emotional bond with a guy than a girl. She hasn’t dated a lot in her life, but after high school she did have a handful of one night stands with girls. She has never slept with a guy and for some reason she just can’t picture herself ever doing it, but a part of her is curious to find out what it’s like. . | [atrb=width,200] |
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